Always do your best!

 

A lot of people, i repeat, a lot of people (not all the people) want to see you do well, but just not better than them. When you are helpless, weak, poor, unsuccessful and losing, a lot of people will try to help you more than enough, their empathy will rain on you, their kindness will make you cry. When you are  nonplussed and cant think of anything they will come to help you, they will be there to make decisions for you. They will be there to explain you whats right and wrong.

But, once you start doing better than them, everything will be changed around you. The ones who were there to help and motivate you to do better, will slowly start to dump you. When you go one better than them, when you outdo the things you havent done before, and finally when you become a cut above, they will slowly start to turn their back on you. You will be a person who will be invisible or the bad one, gratuitously. Finally, you will be rejected.

Some of them, I repeat some of them, wont be changed, despite all the others are changed. They will start to become overly friendly and overly caring when they are infront of you. But when you are not their, their truest faces and feelings come out. These are the ones that backstab you.
You'll be deleted from their friends or people-who-need-help list. But they never forget stalk you.

And when you start to make your decisions without getting help from others, when you start standing for yourself, strongly than ever before, a lot of people, I repeat a lot of people start questioning your 'way', they will accuse you for being yourself, for chasing your goals, for being strong, for being independent. Though you keep growing the integrity inside you, they will somehow find a fault, if you are ready to accept your fault, then they will tell you some made up faults or will tell about your scarred, traumatizing  history.

So, if you feel a sudden, unthinkable change in the helping, caring people around you, whenever you make a progress, even a little one, it's time to rethink about the ones who you were thought beautiful human beings. The sole thing we can do is, whenever we found out that kind of people, just giving a smile and remain unchanged, remain calm and strong. Because, we cant drop down to their level. And most importantly theres a few words that should be kept in mind and recalled all the time.

'A lot of people want to see you do well, but just not better than them'