Taking kind people for granted?

 

If a person can be kind to you doesnt mean s/he can tolerate everything wrong you do. What do you think about cheating a person who is kind to you? What do you think about backstabbing a person who is kind to you? I suppose that is wrong to the deepest levels of humanity. When someone has been kind to you genuinely, maybe because of love or maybe because his/her heart is so big to spend his precious time to listen to you or help you, shows that they have been gifted with the truest boon that has not been given to most of the humans despite they belong to the human race. And kindness is a superpower because it is the only power that makes people think about others, when they are blessed with it. Thus the impeccable make-up of kind people may be so uncanny to you, as your heart has never been shown such kindness or just because you have never thought to be kind genuinely to others in your whole life. Thus, when you are treated with genuine kindness, try, not to be grateful or to keep it in mind forever or to appreciate them,  no, but just not to hurt them. How can you be so rude? 

It is very easy to take kind people for granted and you think they are always there no matter what you do. But,  they can understand you, understand what you are doing, when they are out of patience, they will directly say that what you do is wrong, that's the moment you feel that they are wrong, because, according to your stupid opinions, kind people should tolerate whatever dirty they are being done on them, just because they are kind! Once they stop putting up with the wrong you are doing them, they won't be available for you again like before. Then you start calling them double-dealing twisters and you think that they are not genuinely kind, trying to stick the blame on them that they are not kind the way they show.  

How can someone be so stupid and unscrupulous to think that, kind people should put up with every unfair thing they have to face? They are also human beings and they also deserve to be treated right. So if you think that you can take advantage of one's kindness on and on, despite doing them wrong, you are the meanest person of all. Because kindness should be welcome with a warm heart, understanding its beauty and keeping in mind that we should also pass this kindness on to other people because kindness is not a thing that should be buried right in the place where it bloomed, but a thing that should be sprouted and rarest things should be saved! 

-hansi 🖤

23.08.2021